Decoding Your Grad

You thought your boss was vague? Wait until you hear your 22-year-old talk about their job search.

Remember translating corporate jargon?

“Let’s circle back” = No.

 “I’ll loop you in” = You’re not invited yet.

 “That’s an interesting approach” = Absolutely not.

Well… here’s your new translation guide: Grad → Parent Edition.

Grad says: “Finals are fine.”

Translation: I’m barely holding it together and can’t handle your panic on top of mine.

Grad says: “The job search is… going.”

Translation: I’m trying, but I don’t have updates yet and the silence feels embarrassing.

Grad says: “I have some leads.”

Translation: I reached out to a few people and I’m hoping something sticks.

Grad says: “I’ll figure it out.”

Translation: I don’t have a plan yet and I’m hoping clarity arrives soon.

Grad says: “I don’t know what I want to do.”

Translation: I’m afraid of choosing wrong and disappointing everyone.

Here’s the good news:

You already know how to read between the lines, translate vague communication, and respond strategically. Those skills work at home, too.

When your grad says “finals are fine,” they don’t need fixing. They need trust.

When they say “I’ll figure it out,” they’re not being dismissive. They’re asking for space.

What’s the trickiest phrase your grad uses (the one you’re still trying to decode)?